{"id":21012,"date":"2026-03-16T01:02:30","date_gmt":"2026-03-16T06:02:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tom-lehr.com\/blog\/?p=21012"},"modified":"2026-03-16T01:02:31","modified_gmt":"2026-03-16T06:02:31","slug":"to-notice-a-friend","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tom-lehr.com\/blog\/2026\/03\/16\/to-notice-a-friend\/","title":{"rendered":"To notice a friend"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tom-lehr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/P3150005.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tom-lehr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/P3150005-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"Who is lettering a cloud\" class=\"wp-image-21013\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tom-lehr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/P3150005-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.tom-lehr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/P3150005-300x225.jpg 300w, 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https:\/\/www.tom-lehr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/DSCF7313-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.tom-lehr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/DSCF7313-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.tom-lehr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/DSCF7313.jpg 1600w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Is no mark of distinction.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tom-lehr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/DSCF7315.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"683\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tom-lehr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/DSCF7315-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"This is the difference\" class=\"wp-image-21016\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tom-lehr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/DSCF7315-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.tom-lehr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/DSCF7315-300x200.jpg 300w, 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