{"id":19390,"date":"2025-04-08T01:02:18","date_gmt":"2025-04-08T06:02:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tom-lehr.com\/blog\/?p=19390"},"modified":"2025-04-08T01:02:18","modified_gmt":"2025-04-08T06:02:18","slug":"ive-never-been-a-great-lover","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tom-lehr.com\/blog\/2025\/04\/08\/ive-never-been-a-great-lover\/","title":{"rendered":"I\u2019ve never been a great lover"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.tom-lehr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/P4070410-4.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" src=\"https:\/\/www.tom-lehr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/P4070410-4-1024x768.jpg\" alt=\"of objects, but it\u2019s as if\" class=\"wp-image-19391\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.tom-lehr.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/04\/P4070410-4-1024x768.jpg 1024w, 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